In my youth I spent money on clothes and shoes. Later, education took its toll on my bank account. Raising my daughter wasn't inexpensive. Now, access to good food and drink makes me feel decadent.
I've got a sister who spends her money and time traveling. She'd no sooner spend $100 for a fancy dinner than I'd go on a 3-week cruise. We each believe the other is missing out. Differences make the world go 'round.